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Silence plays a role in effective listening from "summary" of You're Not Listening by Kate Murphy

To truly listen to someone, you need to be comfortable with silence. It may seem counterintuitive, but silence is not the absence of listening; rather, it is an essential part of effective listening. When you allow for moments of silence in a conversation, you create space for the other person to gather their thoughts and express themselves more clearly. This can lead to deeper, more meaningful interactions. Silence can also signal to the speaker that you are fully engaged and attentive. By resisting the urge to fill every pause with your own thoughts or opinions, you show respect for the speaker and give them the opportunity to share their perspective without interruption. This can foster trust and openness in the conversation, allowing for more honest and a...
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