Break free from shame and guilt surrounding emotional neglect from "summary" of Running on Empty by Jonice Webb,Christine Musello
If you grew up with emotional neglect, you likely carry a heavy burden of shame and guilt. These feelings are often deeply ingrained, woven into the fabric of your being. You may have internalized the message that your needs and emotions are not important, that you are unworthy of love and attention. This pervasive sense of shame can be paralyzing, keeping you stuck in a cycle of self-blame and self-criticism. It is crucial to recognize that the shame and guilt you feel are not your fault. They are the result of being raised in an environment where your emotional needs were not met. Your caregivers may not have intentionally neglected you, but the impact of their actions – or lack thereof – has left lasting scars. By acknowledging this truth, you can begin to untangle the web of shame and guilt that has held you captive for so long. Breaking free from shame and guilt surrounding emotional neglect requires compassion and self-acceptance. It involves challenging the negative beliefs you hold about yourself and reframing your inner dialogue. Instead of berating yourself for past mistakes or perceived shortco...
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