Let go of perfectionism from "summary" of How to Be the Love You Seek by Nicole LePera
Perfectionism is a common trait amongst many of us. We strive for perfection in all aspects of our lives, whether it be our work, our relationships, or even our appearance. We set high standards for ourselves and beat ourselves up when we inevitably fall short. But striving for perfection is a fruitless pursuit that only leads to stress, anxiety, and self-doubt. When we let go of perfectionism, we free ourselves from the shackles of unrealistic expectations. We allow ourselves to be imperfect, to make mistakes, and to learn and grow from them. We give ourselves permission to be human, with all our flaws and shortcomings. Letting go of perfectionism doesn't mean settling for mediocrity. It means accepting ourselves as we are, imperfections and all. It means embracing our vulnerabilities and acknowledging that we are works in progress. It means being kind and compassionate towards ourselves, rather than constantly criticizing and berating ourselves for not measuring up to some unattainable standard. When we let go of perfectionism, we open ourselves up to new possibilities and opportunities. We become more flexible, adaptable, and resilient. We are better able to cope with setbacks and failures, and to bounce back from them stronger and more determined than ever. We are able to take risks, try new things, and step out of our comfort zones without the fear of not being perfect. Letting go of perfectionism is a liberating experience. It allows us to live more authentically, more fully, and more joyfully. It frees us from the tyranny of comparison and competition, and allows us to appreciate and celebrate our own uniqueness and individuality. It enables us to cultivate self-compassion, self-acceptance, and self-love. It is only when we let go of perfectionism that we can truly be the love that we seek.
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