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Our brain is wired for connection from birth from "summary" of Wired for Dating by Stan Tatkin

From the moment we enter this world, our brains are primed for connection. This is not a learned behavior, but rather an innate drive that is hardwired into us. Our brains are designed to seek out and maintain social bonds with others, as this is crucial for our survival and well-being. As infants, we rely on our caregivers to meet our needs and provide us with love and security. This early attachment forms the foundation for how we relate to others later in life. When our caregivers are responsive and attuned to our needs, our brains develop a sense of safety and trust in the world around us. This sets the stage for healthy relationships in the future. Conversely, when our early attachments are fraught with inconsistency or neglect, our brains can become wired for insecurity and distrust. This can ...
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    Wired for Dating

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