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Judgments can hinder clear communication from "summary" of Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg
When we make judgments about others, it clouds our ability to communicate clearly with them. These judgments can create a barrier between us and the other person, preventing us from truly understanding each other. Instead of approaching the situation with an open mind and a willingness to listen, we come into the conversation with preconceived notions and biases that color our interactions. When we label someone as "lazy," "selfish," or "incompetent," we are not seeing them as a whole person. We are reducing them to a single trait or behavior that we find objectionable. This kind of thinking prevents us from seeing the underlying reasons for their actions and from empathizing with their perspective. As a result, our communication becomes muddled and ineffective, leading to misunderstandings and conflict. By letting go of our judgments and focusing on observations, feelings, needs, and requests, we can create a clearer and more compassionate form of communication. When we describe ...
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