Use enforceable statements to maintain boundaries from "summary" of Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood by Jim Fay,Charles Fay
When setting boundaries with young children, it is important to use enforceable statements. These statements are clear, specific, and communicate the consequences of a child's behavior. Enforceable statements are not threats or warnings, but rather statements that outline what will happen if a boundary is crossed. For example, instead of saying, "If you don't stop running, you will be in big trouble," a parent can say, "If you choose to run in the house, you are choosing to sit in time-out." Enforceable statements help children understand the cause and effect relationship between their actions and the consequences. By stating boundaries in this way, parents can maintain consiste...
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