Discipline should be consistent and loving from "summary" of Dare To Discipline by James Dr Dobson
The key to effective discipline is consistency and love. Children need to know where the boundaries are and what the consequences will be if they cross them. Without consistent discipline, children are left confused and unsure of what is expected of them. Inconsistent discipline can lead to feelings of insecurity and anxiety in children. On the other hand, discipline without love can be harsh and damaging. Children need to feel loved and valued, even when they are being disciplined. Love is the foundation of discipline; it provides the emotional support and security that children need to thrive. Without love, discipline can feel punitive and punitive discipline can damage the parent-child relationship. Consistent and loving discipline requires clear communication between parents and children. Parents need to explain the rules and consequences clearly and consistently. Children need to understand why they are being discip...
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