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Refrain from Using Your Child as a Source of Emotional Support from "summary" of 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do by Amy Morin
Using your child as a source of emotional support is a common mistake that many parents make. It's easy to turn to your child for comfort when you're feeling stressed or overwhelmed. You might seek reassurance from your child when you're uncertain about a decision or anxious about a situation. However, relying on your child for emotional support can be harmful in the long run. Children are not equipped to handle the emotional needs of their parents. They are still developing their own coping skills and understanding of emotions. When you lean on your child for support, you are putting an unfair burden on them. This can lead to feelings of anxiety, guilt, and even resentment in your child. Furthermore, using your child as a source of emotional support can hinder their emotional development. Instead of learning how to regu...
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