Implement timeouts when needed from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
When children misbehave, timeouts can be an effective tool for discipline. Timeouts help children calm down, think about what they did wrong, and understand that their behavior has consequences. However, timeouts should not be used for every little infraction. They should be reserved for more serious offenses like hitting, kicking, or disrespect. Implementing timeouts when needed requires consistency and firmness. Make sure your child knows the rules and consequences ahead of time so there are no surprises. When a timeout is necessary, calmly explain why they are receiving one and lead them to a designated timeout area. The timeout should last about one minute for every year of the child's age. During timeouts, it's important to ignore any protests, whining, or attempts to get out of the timeout. This sends a cl...
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