Offer choices instead of commands from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When we offer choices to children instead of commanding them, we give them a sense of autonomy and control over their lives. This fosters independence and helps them develop decision-making skills. For example, instead of telling a child to put on their shoes, we can ask, "Do you want to wear your red sneakers or your blue sandals?" This way, the child feels empowered to make a choice and is more likely to cooperate. By offering choices, we respect children's individual preferences and personalities. It shows that we value their input and opinions, which can strengthen our relationship with them. When children feel heard and respected, they are more likely to listen to us in return...
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