Create a safe space for children to express themselves from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
In our interactions with children, it is important to provide them with a safe space where they feel comfortable expressing themselves. This means creating an environment where they feel heard and understood, without fear of judgment or criticism. When children feel safe to open up, they are more likely to communicate their thoughts and feelings openly and honestly. To create a safe space for children, it is essential to listen to them actively and attentively. This involves giving them our full attention, making eye contact, and showing genuine interest in what they have to say. By actively listening to children, we validate their emotions and let them know that their feelings are important to us....
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