Offer support and guidance without judgment from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
When we respond to challenging behavior with judgment, we risk shutting down communication with our children. Passing judgment can make them defensive, which can hinder our ability to understand the underlying reasons for their behavior. Instead of focusing on blame, we should aim to provide support and guidance to help our children develop the skills they need to overcome their challenges. Offering support means being there for our children without conditions or expectations. It means showing them that we are on their side, no matter what. By offering our unconditional support, we create a safe space for them to open up and express themselves without fear of criticism or punishment. This lays the foundation for a strong parent-child relationship built on trust and understanding. Guidance is about helping our children navigate the complex world around them. It involves teaching them problem-solving skills, emotional regulation techniques, and effective communication strategies. When we offer guidance, we empower our children to make be...
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