Be consistent in your approach from "summary" of Raising Human Beings by Ross W. Greene
Consistency in your approach means doing what you say you're going to do. It means that your expectations, rules, and consequences remain the same from one day to the next. Inconsistency is confusing and anxiety-provoking for kids. It makes them unsure about what's going to happen next. It makes them feel like they're walking on eggshells, never quite sure when the other shoe is going to drop. It makes them feel like the ground is constantly shifting beneath their feet. Consistency is especially important for kids who struggle with flexibility and frustration tolerance. These are the kids who have a hard time adapting to changes in plans or expectations. They rely on consistency to feel safe and secure in their environment. They need to know that the rules aren't going to change from one moment to the next. Consistency doesn't mean that you can't be flexible. It doesn't mean that you can't take into account the unique needs and circumstances of each situation. It just means that the...
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