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Validate others' feelings and experiences from "summary" of How to Read a Person Like a Book by Gerard Nierenberg,Henry H. Calero

When interacting with others, it is important to acknowledge the validity of their emotions and experiences. This involves actively listening to what they are saying and demonstrating empathy towards their feelings. By validating someone's feelings, you are showing that you respect and understand their perspective, even if you may not necessarily agree with it. Validating others' feelings and experiences can help to build trust and rapport in a conversation. It shows that you are willing to listen and consider their point of view, which can lead to more open and honest communication. Additionally, validation can help to de-escalate tense situations by diffusing emotions and demonstrating that you are n...
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    How to Read a Person Like a Book

    Gerard Nierenberg

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