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Setting limits is essential for healthy development from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté

In the complex world of parenting, setting limits is not just a matter of discipline or control. It is about providing a secure and stable environment for our children to grow and thrive. When we set limits, we are not restricting our children's freedom or stifling their creativity. On the contrary, we are giving them the structure and guidance they need to navigate the challenges of the world. Limits act as a protective shield, shielding our children from harmful influences and allowing them to develop their own sense of self. Without limits, children can easily become overwhelmed and lost in a sea of conflicting messages and expectations. They may struggle to form strong attachments and develop a healthy sense of identity. By setting limits, we are showing our children that we care about their well-being and want what is best for them. We are teaching them to respect themselves and others, to set boundaries and mak...
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    Hold on to Your Kids

    Gordon Neufeld

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