Hidden habits may be driving our unhappiness from "summary" of Habits of a Happy Brain by Loretta Graziano Breuning
It's easy to blame our unhappiness on external factors - the demanding boss, the difficult relationship, the never-ending traffic. But what if our dissatisfaction is actually being fueled by something much closer to home? What if our own hidden habits are the true culprits behind our discontent?Our brains are wired to seek pleasure and avoid pain, a survival mechanism that served our ancestors well in the wild. Unfortunately, in today's modern world, this same wiring can lead us down a path of unhappiness without us even realizing it. Our brains are constantly seeking out rewards, whether it's the rush of dopamine from a sugary snack or the sense of accomplishment from completing a task. But when these rewards are short-lived or unfulfilling, we may find ourselves stuck in a cycle of seeking more and more to fill the void. This cycle can manifest in a variety of ways, from overeating to overspending to constantly checking our phones for new notifications. These habits may provide temporary relief or distraction, but in the long run, they only serve to perpetuate our dissatisfaction. By becoming aware of these hidden habits and the role they play in our unhappiness, we can begin to take back control of our brains and our lives. Changing these habits won't happen overnight, but with patience and persistence, we can rewire our brains to seek out more sustainable sources of happiness. By focusing on activities that truly bring us joy and fulfillment, rather than simply chasing after fleeting rewards, we can break free from the cycle of dissatisfaction and create a more lasting sense of well-being. So the next time you find yourself feeling unhappy, take a closer look at your habits - you may be surprised at what you find.
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