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Games can take many forms in daily interactions from "summary" of Games People Play by Eric Berne, MD

In daily life, the ways in which people engage with each other are often characterized by patterns of behavior that can be likened to games. These games are not necessarily fun and recreational, but rather form part of the complex tapestry of human interactions. These games can take on various forms, from simple exchanges to more intricate social dynamics. For example, a common game that people play is the "If It Weren't For You" game, where individuals blame others for their own shortcomings or mistakes. This game can manifest in subtle ways, such as passive-aggressive comments or more overt forms like arguments and conflicts. Similarly, the "See What You Made Me Do" game involves i...
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    Eric Berne, MD

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