Cultivate a sense of curiosity and wonder in exploring the person's inner world from "summary" of Coach the Person, Not the Problem by Marcia Reynolds
One of the most powerful ways to connect with someone on a deeper level is to approach them with a sense of curiosity and wonder. By cultivating this mindset, you are showing a genuine interest in understanding the person's inner world - their thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and motivations. This approach can help you build rapport and trust with the person, creating a safe space for them to open up and share more about themselves. When you approach someone with curiosity and wonder, you are signaling that you are not there to judge or criticize them. Instead, you are there to listen, learn, and support them in their journey of self-discovery and growth. This mindset can help the person feel seen, heard, and valu...
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