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Mental strength requires maintaining boundaries from "summary" of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do by Amy Morin

Mental strength is about being able to control your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in a way that allows you to reach your full potential. One important aspect of maintaining mental strength is setting and maintaining boundaries. Boundaries are the limits we set for ourselves in terms of what we will and will not accept from others. When we don't have clear boundaries, we leave ourselves open to being taken advantage of, mistreated, or manipulated by others. Setting boundaries is not about building walls or shutting people out; it's about creating healthy relationships based on mutual respect. When you have clear boundaries, you are able to communicate your needs and expectations to others, which helps to prevent misunderstandings and conflicts. Boundaries also help you to conserve your emotional energy and avoid getting drawn into unnecessary drama or negativity. Maintaining boundaries requires assertiveness, courage, and self-awareness. It means being able to say "no" when necessary, even if it means disappointing or upsetting others. It also means being able to recognize when someone is trying to push past your boundaries and standing firm in defending them. This can be challenging, especially if you are used to putting others' needs ahead of your own, but it is essential for your mental well-being. Without boundaries, you are more likely to experience stress, resentment, and burnout. You may find yourself constantly giving to others without receiving anything in return, or allowing toxic people to have a negative impact on your life. By setting and maintaining boundaries, you are able to protect yourself from these harmful dynamics and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Remember that setting boundaries is not a one-time event; it is an ongoing process that requires vigilance and self-reflection. As you grow and change, your boundaries may need to be adjusted accordingly. By staying true to your values and needs, you can cultivate the mental strength needed to navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience.
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    13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do

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