Set clear and reasonable expectations from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
Setting clear and reasonable expectations is a crucial aspect of effective parenting. When parents establish clear guidelines and boundaries for their children, it helps to provide structure and consistency in the household. Children thrive when they know what is expected of them and what the consequences will be if those expectations are not met. By setting clear expectations, parents can communicate their values and beliefs to their children. This helps to instill a sense of responsibility and accountability in children, as they understand the importance of following rules and meeting expectations. Clear expectations also help to prevent misunderstandings and conflicts, as children know what is acceptable behavior and what is not. It is essential for parents to ensure that their expectations are reasonable and age-appropriate. Expecting too much from children can lead to frustration and resentment, while setting expectatio...
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