Acknowledge your child's feelings, but hold them accountable for their actions from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman
When your child comes to you feeling upset, it's important to validate their emotions. Let them know that you understand how they are feeling and that it's okay to feel that way. This helps them feel heard and acknowledged, which can help diffuse the situation. However, it's crucial to also address their behavior and hold them accountable for their actions. Just because they are upset or frustrated does not give them a free pass to act out or behave inappropriately. As a parent, it's your job to teach them that they are responsible for their actions, regardless of how they are feeling. By acknowledging their feelings and then holding them...
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