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Stop Projecting Your Own Unresolved Issues onto Your Child from "summary" of 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do by Amy Morin
When you project your own unresolved issues onto your child, you're essentially burdening them with problems that aren't theirs to bear. Whether you're dealing with past traumas, unmet goals, or unhealed wounds, it's crucial to address these issues outside of your relationship with your child. Your child isn't responsible for fixing your problems or making you feel better about yourself. It's unfair to expect them to carry the weight of your emotional baggage. Instead, seek out professional help, talk to a therapist, or confide in a trusted friend or family member. By addressing your own iss...
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