Stop seeking validation from others from "summary" of You Do You by Sarah Knight
If you're constantly seeking validation from others, you're giving away your power. You're allowing your sense of self-worth to be determined by the opinions of people who may not even know you very well, or worse, don't have your best interests at heart. By seeking validation from others, you're essentially outsourcing your self-esteem. You're saying, "I don't trust myself to know what's best for me, so I need you to tell me."But here's the thing: nobody knows you better than you know yourself. Nobody knows your hopes, dreams, fears, and desires like you do. So why would you trust someone else to tell you what's right for you? Why would you let someone else's opinion of you hold more weight than your own? It's time to take back your power. It's time to stop seeking validation from others and start trusting yourself. When you stop seeking validation from others, you free yourself from the need for external approval. You no longer feel the constant pressure to conform to other people's expectations or meet their standards. You can finally be true to yourself and live your life on your...Similar Posts
Accept what cannot be changed
It is essential to acknowledge that there are certain things in life that are beyond our control. No matter how much we may des...
Connecting with the essence of Being
When you connect with the essence of Being, you are aligning yourself with the present moment, with the stillness and spaciousn...
Seek clarity and direction through meditation and reflection
When we take the time to meditate and reflect, we allow ourselves the opportunity to gain clarity and direction in our lives. M...
Empathy can build bridges between people
Empathy is a powerful tool that has the ability to transcend barriers and connect individuals on a deeper level. It serves as a...
Find inspiration in the success of others
When I see someone else doing something great, I get jealous. How could they be so talented and successful while I'm just here ...
Accept criticism for personal growth
The idea of accepting criticism for personal growth is a difficult one for many of us. It goes against our instincts to defend ...
Be present and mindful
To truly experience happiness, it is essential to be present and mindful in every moment. This means fully engaging with whatev...
Take time to connect with your body
It is essential for a woman to take the time to truly connect with her body. In our fast-paced world, it can be easy to neglect...
The search for purpose leads to selfdeception
The act of seeking purpose in life can often lead to a dangerous path of self-deception. People search endlessly for a sense of...
Remember that selfesteem is a lifelong journey, not a destination
Self-esteem is not a fixed state that we reach once and for all, like a destination we arrive at and then stay forever. It is m...