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Build connection through shared language patterns from "summary" of Words that Change Minds by Shelle Rose Charvet

When people use similar language patterns in a conversation, they are more likely to feel connected to each other. This is because they can unconsciously pick up on each other's linguistic cues and respond in a way that feels familiar and comfortable. By mirroring the language patterns of the person you are speaking with, you can create a sense of rapport and understanding that can deepen the connection between you. Shared language patterns can include everything from specific words and phrases to overall communication styles. By paying attention to the way someone speaks and adjusting your own language to match theirs, you can signal that you are on the same wavelength and make them feel more at ease. This can help to build trust and create a more harmonious relationship, whether you are working together on a project or simply ha...
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    Words that Change Minds

    Shelle Rose Charvet

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