Emotional intelligence is strength from "summary" of The Will to Change by bell hooks
Emotional intelligence, often dismissed as a weakness, is actually a source of great strength. In a culture that glorifies the stoic, unemotional man as the epitome of masculinity, being in touch with one's emotions is seen as a liability. Men are taught to suppress their feelings, to deny their vulnerability, to toughen up and soldier on. But this toxic masculinity is not only harmful to men themselves, it is also damaging to those around them. bell hooks argues that emotional intelligence is not only a personal strength, but a social one as well. When men are able to access and express their emotions, they are better equipped to form deep, meaningful connections with others. They are able to empathize, to communicate openly and honestly, to resolve conflicts peacefully. In a world filled with violence and aggression, the ability to connect with our emotions and the emotions of others is a radical...
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