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Focus on what you can control, not what you can't from "summary" of The Happiness Trap Pocketbook by Dr Russ Harris,Russ Harris,Bev Aisbett
When we focus on what we can control, we direct our attention and energy towards those aspects of our lives that are within our power to influence. This means letting go of worrying about things that are beyond our control, such as the actions and opinions of others, or external circumstances that we cannot change. By shifting our focus in this way, we free ourselves from the stress and anxiety that often come from trying to control the uncontrollable. It's important to recognize that there are many things in life that we simply cannot control. No matter how much we might wish things were different, there are certain aspects of our reality that are beyond our influence. By accepting this reality and focusing on what we can control, we can cultivate a greater sense of peace and contentment in our lives. When we constantly worry about things that are beyond our control, we waste valuable time and energy that could be better spent on things that actually matter to us. By shifting our focus towards what we can control, we empower ourselves to take positive action and make meaningful changes in our lives. This proactive approach not only helps us to feel more in charge of our own destiny, but also leads to a greater sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. Focusing on what we can control also helps us to develop a greater sense of self-awareness and self-compassion. By acknowledging our limitations and recognizing our strengths, we can cultivate a more balanced and realistic view of ourselves. This self-awareness allows us to make better decisions and take more effective action in pursuit of our goals and values. In the end, focusing on what we can control is not about ignoring or denying the things that are beyond our influence. Rather, it is about recognizing the limits of our power and directing our attention towards those aspects of our lives that we can shape and change. By doing so, we can cultivate a greater sense of agency and purpose, leading to a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
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