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Struggles with perfectionism from "summary" of Tender at the Bone by Ruth Reichl

Ruth's relentless pursuit of perfection often proved to be her biggest obstacle. She held herself to impossibly high standards, constantly striving for flawlessness in everything she did. This unyielding quest for perfection consumed her thoughts and actions, driving her to extremes in order to achieve an unattainable ideal. Her perfectionism manifested in various ways throughout her life, from meticulously planning elaborate dinner parties to obsessively editing her writing until every word was just right. She was fiercely critical of her own work, constantly finding fault in even the smallest details. This self-imposed pressure to be flawless left her feeling overwhelmed and anxious, unable to fully appreciate her own accomplishments. Despite her best efforts, Ruth's perfectionism often led to disappointment and frustration. She struggled to find satisfaction in her achievements, a...
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    Tender at the Bone

    Ruth Reichl

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