Addiction often stems from early attachment issues from "summary" of Scattered Minds by Gabor Maté, MD
One of the most fundamental concepts to understand when it comes to addiction is the idea that it often has its roots in early attachment issues. When we talk about attachment, we are referring to the bond that is formed between a child and their primary caregiver in the early years of life. This bond serves as the foundation for all future relationships and shapes the way an individual learns to relate to others. In a healthy attachment, a child feels safe, secure, and loved by their caregiver. This sets the stage for the development of emotional regulation, self-esteem, and a sense of belonging in the world. However, when this attachment is disrupted or insecure, it can have lasting effects on a person's mental and emotional well-being. Individuals who have experienced early attachment issues may struggle with feelings of insecurity, inadequacy, and fear of abandonment. They may turn to substances or behaviors as a way to cope with these difficult emotions and fill the void left by unmet emotional needs. This pattern can easily spiral into addiction, as the temporary ...
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