Creating a balance between structure and flexibility is key to effective parenting from "summary" of The Science of Parenting by Margot Sunderland
Effective parenting involves finding the delicate balance between providing structure and offering flexibility to your children. Structure is essential for children as it provides them with a sense of security and predictability in their lives. When children have clear rules and routines to follow, they are more likely to feel safe and develop a sense of trust in their parents. However, too much structure can stifle a child’s creativity and autonomy, leading to feelings of frustration and rebellion. Flexibility, on the other hand, allows children to explore their own interests and develop their own identities. When parents are open to their children’s ideas and opinions, they are fostering a sense of independence and self-esteem. Flexibility also allows parents to adapt to changing circumsta...
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