Validate children's experiences from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When we validate children's experiences, we acknowledge their feelings and emotions as real and legitimate. This doesn't mean we have to agree with their behavior or choices, but rather we show them that we understand how they are feeling. By doing so, we build trust and connection with our children, creating a safe space for them to express themselves openly. Validation can be as simple as saying, "I can see that you're feeling upset right now." By acknowledging their emotions, we help children feel heard and understood. This can prevent power struggles and defensiveness, as children are more likely to cooperate when they feel v...
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