Avoid power struggles by offering choices from "summary" of Positive Discipline A-Z by Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.,Lynn Lott,H. Stephen Glenn
When children are given choices, they feel more empowered and in control of their lives. This can help prevent power struggles because they feel like they have a say in the matter. Imagine how you would feel if someone was constantly telling you what to do without giving you any input or options. It would likely lead to defiance and resistance, right?By offering choices, you are showing your child that you respect their autonomy and trust their decision-making abilities. This can help build a positive relationship based on mutual respect and cooperation. When children feel respected, they are more likely to cooperate and follow through with instructions. It's important to offer choices that are appropriate for your child's age and developmental level. For example, you wouldn't want to ask a toddler if they want to clean their room or not, as they may not understand the consequences of their decision. Instead, you could offer choices like "Would you like to clean up your toys now or after snack time?" It's also important to set limits and boundaries when offering choices. Children should not be allowed to make choices that are harmful or go against your family values. By setting clear boundaries, children will understand that they still need to follow rules even when given choices.- Offering choices is a powerful parenting tool that can help prevent power struggles and foster a positive relationship with your child. It allows children to feel empowered, respected, and in control of their lives. So next time you feel a power struggle brewing, try offering choices and see how it can transform the situation.
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