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Avoid overparenting and micromanaging every aspect of children's lives from "summary" of How to Raise an Adult by Julie Lythcott-Haims

Many parents today are guilty of overparenting and micromanaging their children's lives. This helicopter parenting style can have negative consequences on children's development and independence. By constantly hovering over every aspect of their children's lives, parents are not allowing them to learn how to navigate challenges and make decisions on their own. Children need the space to make mistakes and learn from them, without parents constantly intervening to fix things for them. Overparenting can hinder children's ability to develop important life skills such as problem-solving, resilience, and decision-making. When parents micromanage every aspect of their children's lives, they are sending the message that they do not trust them to handle things on their own. It is important for parents to step back and allow their children to take on more responsibility as they grow older. This means letting them make their own decisions, even if they make mistakes along...
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    How to Raise an Adult

    Julie Lythcott-Haims

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