Fear of rejection from "summary" of No Longer Human by Osamu Dazai
The fear of rejection is a constant companion, a shadow that looms over every interaction, every relationship. It gnaws at the edges of my consciousness, a persistent whisper that tells me I am not good enough, not worthy of love or acceptance. It colors every word I speak, every gesture I make, tainting even the most innocent of interactions with a sense of dread. I am always on edge, always waiting for the other shoe to drop, for the inevitable moment when my flaws and shortcomings will be laid bare for all to see. I am hyper-aware of every nuance, every subtle shift in tone or expression, searching for signs of disapproval or disdain. I am quick to take offense, quick to retreat into myself at the slightest hint of rejection. But this fear is not just a product of my own insecurities; it is also a reflection of the world around me. It is born of a society that values perfection above all else, that demands conformity and compliance a...
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