The power of validation in discipline from "summary" of No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel,Tina Payne Bryson
Validation is a powerful tool in discipline because it helps children feel understood and valued. When parents take the time to validate their child's feelings, they are showing empathy and compassion, which builds a strong connection between them. This connection is essential for effective discipline because it allows children to feel safe and secure, making them more receptive to learning and growth. Validation involves acknowledging and accepting a child's emotions without judgment or criticism. By validating their feelings, parents are teaching their children that it is okay to feel and express emotions, which helps them dev...
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