Repairing the relationship after a discipline incident is crucial from "summary" of No-Drama Discipline by Daniel J. Siegel,Tina Payne Bryson
When a discipline incident occurs, our children often feel disconnected and rejected. This may lead to feelings of shame and unworthiness, which can have a lasting impact on their emotional well-being. It is crucial for us to repair the relationship after such incidents, as it allows us to reconnect with our children and rebuild trust. By repairing the relationship, we show our children that we still love and care for them, even when we have had to discipline them for their behavior. Repairing the relationship involves validating our children's emotions and helping them make sense of what happened. We need to empathize with their perspective and listen to their side of the story. This helps our child...
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