Use positive language from "summary" of How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids by Carla Naumburg
Using positive language is a powerful tool in communicating with your children. Instead of focusing on what you don't want your child to do, try framing your requests in a positive way. For example, instead of saying, "Don't run in the house," you could say, "Please walk inside." This simple shift in language can make a big difference in how your child receives your message. Positive language helps to create a more supportive and encouraging environment for your child. When you use positive language, you are showing your child that you believe in their ability to make good choices. This can boost their self-esteem and confidence, leading to better behavior overall. It's important to be mindful of the words you use when speaking to your child. Negative language can be discouraging and may lead to power strugg...
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