Acknowledge the child's feelings from "summary" of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish by
When a child expresses their feelings, it is important to acknowledge them. This means letting the child know that you understand what they are feeling, without judging or dismissing their emotions. By acknowledging their feelings, you show the child that you are listening and that you care about their experience. Acknowledging a child's feelings can be as simple as saying, "I see that you are feeling sad," or "It sounds like you are really frustrated right now." By labeling the child's emotions, you help them to identify and process what they are feeling. This can also help to diffuse the intensity of their emotions, as they feel heard and validated. It is important to remember that acknowledging a child's feelings does not mean that you are agreeing with their behavior. You can validate a child's emotions without condoning th...
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