Offer choices from "summary" of How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids by Carla Naumburg
When your child is refusing to get dressed, brush their teeth, or do anything else you need them to do, you may find yourself on the verge of losing your cool. This is where offering choices can be a game-changer. Instead of demanding compliance, you can offer your child a sense of control by giving them options to choose from. For example, you could say, "Would you like to wear the blue shirt or the red shirt today?" This simple act of offering choices can help your child feel empowered and more willing to cooperate. It's important to keep in mind that the choices you offer should be limited and reasonable. You don't want to overwhelm your child with too many options, as this can lead to indecision and frustration. By presenting two or three choices that you are comfortable with, you are setting clear boundaries while still allowing your child to have a say in the matter. This can help prevent power struggles and meltdowns, making your interactions with your child more peaceful and productive. Offering choices also helps your chi...
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