Apologize when necessary from "summary" of How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids by Carla Naumburg
When we lose our cool with our kids, it's essential to remember that we are not perfect. We all make mistakes, and it's okay to mess up sometimes. Apologizing when necessary is a crucial part of repairing the damage done when we lose our temper. It shows our children that we are human and that we are willing to take responsibility for our actions. Apologizing can be challenging, especially when we are feeling ashamed or embarrassed. However, it is essential to model healthy behavior for our children. By apologizing when necessary, we demonstrate to our kids that it is okay to make mistakes as long as we take responsibility for them. This helps them learn how to apologize and make amends when they inevitably mess up in the future. When we apologize to our kids, we are also teaching them about empathy and compassion. We are showing them that we care about their feelings and that we understand the impact of our actions on them. This can strengthen our relationship with our children and help build trust between us. It's important to remember that apologizing is not a sign of weakness but rather a sign of strength. It takes courage to admit when we are wrong and to make amends. By apologizing when necessary, we are setting a positive example for our children and showing them how to handle conflicts and mistakes in a healthy way. So, the next time you lose your cool with your kids, take a deep breath, calm down, and apologize if necessary. It may be challenging, but it is a crucial step in repairing the relationship and showing your children that you care about them and their feelings.
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