Choose a response from "summary" of How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids by Carla Naumburg
When your child is pushing your buttons, it's easy to react without thinking. You might yell, threaten, or say something hurtful in the heat of the moment. This is a natural response, especially when you're feeling overwhelmed or frustrated. However, reacting impulsively rarely leads to a positive outcome. It often escalates the situation and damages your relationship with your child. Instead of reacting automatically, you have the power to choose a response. This means taking a moment to pause before responding to your child's behavior. This pause allows you to calm down, gather your thoughts, and decide how you want to respond in a way that aligns with your values and goals as a parent. Choosing a response requires self-awareness and self-regulation. It involves recognizing your triggers and understanding why certain...
Similar Posts
Prioritize teaching skills over punishment
The philosophy being advocated here can be summed up in a single sentence: kids do well if they can. This is not to suggest tha...
Encourage mindful awareness of thoughts and feelings
In our daily lives as parents, it's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of our busy schedules. We often find ourselv...
Sibling conflicts are a common part of family life
Sibling conflicts are a common part of family life. They can range from minor disagreements to full-blown battles, leaving pare...
Utilizing the power of storytelling and play
One way to foster a Yes Brain is by harnessing the power of storytelling and play. These two powerful tools can help children d...
Resist the Urge to Rescue Your Child from Every Problem
When parents rescue their children from every problem they face, they inadvertently hinder their child's ability to develop the...
Promote mindfulness and selfawareness
Promoting mindfulness and self-awareness is a crucial aspect of nurturing a child's ability to think critically and make inform...
Reflecting on past decisions can reveal cognitive biases
When we look back on past decisions we have made, we may uncover certain patterns or tendencies that influenced our choices. Th...
Trust in the power of encouragement to transform behavior
Encouragement is a powerful tool that can transform behavior. When we trust in the power of encouragement, we believe in the ab...
Foster a sense of independence and selfreliance in children
To help children develop independence and self-reliance, parents need to step back and let their kids make mistakes and learn f...
Teach life skills through discipline
The fundamental principle of discipline is to teach life skills. Children who are allowed to do anything they please, whenever ...