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To truly understand someone, you must first establish a connection with them. By building rapport, you create an environment of trust and openness that allows for deeper insights into their thoughts and feelings. Rapport is not something that can be forced or rushed; it requires patience and genuine interest in the other person. It involves active listening, empathizing with their experiences, and finding common ground to establish a sense of camaraderie. When you take the time to establish rapport with someone, you are able to pick up on subtle cues and nuances in their behavior that can provide valuable insight into their personality and motivations. This deeper level of understanding allows you to better anticipate their reactions and adjust your own approach accordingly. Furthermore, by building rapport with others, you create a foundation for meaningful communication and collaboration. When people feel understood and valued, they are more likely to share their thoughts and feelings openly, leading to a richer and more authentic exchange of ideas.
  1. Building rapport with others is the key to gaining valuable insights into their thoughts, feelings, and motivations. It is a foundational skill in the art of reading people like a book, enabling you to connect on a deeper level and uncover the true essence of who they are.
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How to Read People Like a Book

Christopher Kingler

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