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Use mirroring and matching techniques to establish rapport from "summary" of How to Become a People Magnet by Marc Reklau

Mirroring and matching techniques are powerful tools to establish rapport with others. By mirroring someone's body language, gestures, tone of voice, and even breathing patterns, you can create a sense of connection and familiarity. This technique works because people are naturally drawn to those who are similar to themselves. When you mirror someone, it sends a subtle signal that you are on the same wavelength, which can make the other person feel more comfortable and open with you. Matching is similar to mirroring but involves slightly adjusting your behavior to align more closely with the other person. This can include adopting a similar speaking pace, using similar language, or even mirroring the other person's emotional state. M...
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