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Peer pressure can lead children astray from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté

Children naturally look to their peers for guidance and validation. They want to belong, to be accepted, to be part of the group. The influence of peers can be incredibly powerful, especially when it comes to values and behaviors. Kids may adopt the beliefs and actions of their friends without even realizing it. They may start to prioritize fitting in over making good choices. Peer pressure can cloud their judgment, making them lose sight of what truly matters. When children are constantly seeking approval from their peers, they may start to distance themselves from their parents. Their need for connection and acceptance can be so strong that they prioritize their friends over their family. They may start to reject their parents' influence in favor of what their peers think and do. This shift can lead children astray, causing them to make decisions that go against their values and upbringing. Peer pressure can be particularly harmful when it encourages risky or harmful behaviors. Children may feel pressured to engage in activities that they know are wrong or dangerous. They may fear being excluded or teased if they don't go along with what their friends are doing. This fear of rejection can push them to do things that they wouldn't normally consider. Peer pressure can distort their sense of right and wrong, leading them down a path that may have serious consequences. As parents, it is important to understand the power of peer influence and to maintain a strong connection with our children. By nurturing a close relationship with them, we can help counteract the negative effects of peer pressure. We can provide a safe space for them to express themselves and to seek guidance when faced with difficult choices. By staying involved and connected, we can help our children navigate the challenges of peer pressure and stay true to themselves.
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    Hold on to Your Kids

    Gordon Neufeld

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