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Foundation of parenting lies in building attachment with our children from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
The essence of parenting lies in the bond between a parent and a child. This connection is not just about love or affection, but about attachment. When we talk about attachment, we are referring to an emotional bond that forms between a child and their primary caregiver. This bond is crucial for a child's healthy development and well-being. As parents, our main responsibility is to ensure that we form a strong attachment with our children. This attachment serves as the foundation for all other aspects of parenting. It is the basis upon which trust, security, and emotional resilience are built. Without a secure attachment, a child may struggle to navigate the complexities of the world around them. Building attachment with our children requires time, effort, and genuine connection. It involves being emotionally available to our children, responding to their needs, and creating a safe and nurturing environment for them to grow and thrive. Attachment is not something that can be forced or rushed; it requires patience and understanding. When we prioritize attachment in our parenting approach, we are setting the stage for a healthy and fulfilling relationship with our children. This bond serves as a source of strength and support for both parent and child, enabling them to weather the challenges of life together. By focusing on building attachment, we are laying the groundwork for a strong and lasting connection that will withstand the test of time.
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