Be consistent in your parenting approach from "summary" of Duct Tape Parenting by Vicki Hoefle
Consistency is key in parenting. It's not enough to just set rules and expectations for your children; you have to follow through consistently. When you're inconsistent in your parenting approach, your children can become confused and unsure of what is expected of them. They may test boundaries more frequently, hoping to catch you off guard. Being consistent doesn't mean being rigid or inflexible. It means sticking to your values and principles, even when it's difficult. Consistency helps children feel safe and secure because they know what to expect from you. It also helps to build trust between you and your children. They learn that you mean what you say and that you can be relied upon to follow through on your promises and consequences. Consistency also helps you as a parent. When you are consistent in your parenting approach, you can more easily manage behaviors and handle conflicts. You ...
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