Allow children to experience natural consequences from "summary" of Duct Tape Parenting by Vicki Hoefle
When we talk about allowing children to experience natural consequences, we are referring to the idea of stepping back and letting them face the outcomes of their actions. This means resisting the urge to swoop in and rescue them from every mistake or misstep they make. It may seem counterintuitive at first, especially for parents who are used to being in control and fixing things for their children. However, by allowing natural consequences to play out, we are teaching our kids valuable lessons about accountability, responsibility, and independence. Imagine a scenario where your child forgets to pack their lunch for school. Instead of rushing to school to drop off their lunch, or arranging for someone to bring it to them, you could let them experience the natural consequence of going hungry until their next meal. This might seem harsh, but it is a powerful way for them to learn the importance of planning ahead and being responsible for their own needs. By allowing children to face the consequences of their actions, we are helping them develop important life skills that will serve ...
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