Avoid power struggles by offering choices from "summary" of Positive Discipline A-Z by Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.,Lynn Lott,H. Stephen Glenn
When children are given choices, they feel more empowered and in control of their lives. This can help prevent power struggles because they feel like they have a say in the matter. Imagine how you would feel if someone was constantly telling you what to do without giving you any input or options. It would likely lead to defiance and resistance, right?By offering choices, you are showing your child that you respect their autonomy and trust their decision-making abilities. This can help build a positive relationship based on mutual respect and cooperation. When children feel respected, they are more likely to cooperate and follow through with ins...
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