Avoid using punishment as a primary training technique from "summary" of Don't Shoot the Dog! by Karen Pryor
Punishment can be a tempting tool when trying to modify behavior, but relying on it as the main technique can lead to negative consequences. Punishment is often misunderstood and misused, causing confusion and fear in the subject. It may suppress behavior temporarily, but it does not teach the subject what to do instead. Punishment can create resentment and erode the trust between the trainer and the subject. When punishment is overused, it can escalate into a dangerous cycle of retaliation. The subject may become aggressive or defensive, making it harder to achieve the desired behavior. Punishment can also have unintended side effects, such as anxiety, avoidance, and learned helplessness. These effects can be long-lasting and detrimental to the subject's well-being. Instead of focusing on punishment,...
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