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Importance of relaxation in sexual experiences from "summary" of Come As You Are: Revised and Updated by Emily Nagoski

Relaxation is a crucial element in creating a positive and fulfilling sexual experience. When we are relaxed, our body is able to fully engage in the sensations and pleasure of the moment. Tension and stress can act as barriers, preventing us from fully enjoying intimacy with our partner. The body's stress response can be triggered by a variety of factors, including past trauma, negative beliefs about sex, or even just the pressures of daily life. When we are in a state of stress, our body releases cortisol, a hormone that can inhibit sexual arousal. This can make it difficult to become physically excited, leading to decreased pleasure and satisfaction. On the other hand, relaxation allows our body to release oxytocin, a hormone associated with bonding and pleasure. When we are relaxed, our muscles are able to loosen, our heart rate slows down, and our breathi...
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    Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

    Emily Nagoski

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