Use the counting method sparingly from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
The counting method is a valuable tool in disciplining children, but it should be used in moderation. Overusing the counting method can lead to a decrease in its effectiveness and can also create a power struggle between parents and children. When parents rely too heavily on counting, children may become desensitized to the consequences of their behavior and may start to view the counting method as an empty threat. It is important for parents to remember that the counting method is just one of many discipline strategies that can be used. By incorporating a variety of discipline techniques, parents can maintain a sense of balance and avoid becoming overly reliant on any one method. This will help prevent children from becoming immune to the consequences of their actions and will also allow parents to respond to different situations in a more flexible and effective manner. When paren...
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